Dec 02

New Horizons Band returns to chapel for a special holiday concert!

21 members of the New Horizons Concert Band play in chapel service Dec. 1st, 2015

21 members of the New Horizons Concert Band play in chapel service Dec. 1st, 2015

Nancy Trudell, Intermountain Board member, recently coordinated with Chaplain Chris to bring the New Horizons Community Band to chapel for a special holiday concert. The band is made up of 52 community members, from a variety of backgrounds, ages and experience who enjoy playing together. While not all the band members were available on December 1st, the turnout was VERY impressive… a clear indication, according to Nancy, that “the band members enjoy ourselves as much or more than the children!”

The band played a number of holiday favorites as well as popular songs the children knew, including “Jingle Bells,” which had the children singing along. After the concert, band members shared their instruments with the children for a musical version of a “petting zoo.” Band members took time with every child and showed them how their instruments worked!

Many of the children’s eyes lit up when they learned that they would get a chance to play trumpets, tubas, trombones, and other instruments. It was clear that more than a few of our children have a musical gift! After creating some notes with a flute, a boy shared, “I didn’t know I could do that until now!”

Another young lady had a fun time playing a tuba for the first time. Her face was beaming after playing the instrument that was bigger than her. Thankfully, she had help holding the instrument and playing a few notes. Overall, it was a wonderful opportunity for our children on campus and we are very thankful to the New Horizons Band for helping make it happen once again this year.

– Carrie Reynolds, Intermountain IPC Manager; Chris Haughee, chaplain

Nov 26

A Holiday Blessing for FBS from Helena First Assembly!

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Volunteers come by the information table at First Assembly to pick up gift tags to go shopping for our kiddos!

This fall the wonderful people of Helena First Assembly approached me to ask how they could connect with all the families Intermountain supports through some of our community-based services. You see, Intermountain serves many more children and families than just those represented by our residential services at 500 S. Lamborn in Helena. Over the past 15 years, especially, Intermountain has made a consisted effort to minister to children before the need arises for intensive residential treatment. These services form the majority of what Intermountain now does on a day-to-day basis.

(Click here for more information about Intermountain’s community services).

One such outreach into our community is called “Family Based Services” (FBS). These children are our neighbors, our children’s classmates, and the sons and daughters of our coworkers. These families are in our churches and often struggle to get the help the need for very special and difficult circumstances. Intermountain provides a valuable support system to these children and their families, enabling them to be more successful in relating to one another despite relational, emotional, or mental health issues that have made things hard to manage in the home.

So, when Sheree Vainio reached out in September to talk about how to recognize these families and celebrate their children, I jumped at the chance! It was a lot of fun to connect Sheree with the amazing staff we have in our FBS programs and see how the amazing work Intermountain is doing fits into the vision First Assembly has for its outreach into the Helena community. After a little creative discussion, we settled upon throwing holiday party and dinner for Intermountain’s FBS clients, which is a task that possibly only First Assembly could take on. Imagine what is involved in purchasing presents, preparing a dinner, and hosting a dinner for 195 children and their families!

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Gift tags carefully arranged to protect the identities of Intermountain’s FBS children

The First Assembly church family has embarked on this project with an enthusiasm and energy that is inspiring. I have heard numerous staff relate how encouraged they are to have the support of the church and how excited they are for the party. It will be a tremendous blessing for the children, their families, and our staff.

If you are in the Helena area and are without a church home, I’d encourage you to visit First Assembly and support this mission-minded congregation (click here for their site). Who knows… maybe there will still be a tag or two that you could pick up from the information table and join in the church’s efforts?

Nov 24

The season of giving knows no bounds

Janet-Tatz-2015The giving season is now upon us. Most expect to both give and receive gifts during this time of year. But wait. What about first giving thanks — Thanksgiving? Before we rush off to purchase the latest hot item on the box stores’ shelves, let’s stop to appreciate and acknowledge this sweetest of times, a time of National Thanksgiving — a time when we can express our collective appreciation for the gifts and blessings that are already ours.

The psalmist, King David, wrote, “It is good to give thanks onto the Lord. To proclaim G-d’s steadfast love at daybreak and G-d’s faithfulness each night.”

While it is true that it is a great idea to set aside one day each year to specifically acknowledge our blessings, how much better might it be if we set aside some portion of each day to express our gratitude for all that we are privileged to enjoy? Gratitude is fertile ground in which compassion, charity, perspective and even happiness can grow.

In this Land of Plenty, there are so many who are in need, are wanting and go without. Our mailboxes will soon be filled with a host of charitable solicitations. The need is great; the causes many. Those of us who can, should offer what we can. It is the right and honorable thing to do.

But how can you decide among all those worthy causes, which ones to support? Some may feel so paralyzed by the onslaught or overwhelmed by the vast need, that they do nothing. But I would like to suggest that we can all offer a little bit of ourselves, for others, not just at this time of year, but throughout the year.

In the Jewish tradition, the word for charity is expressed as tzedakah. This is not merely an act of kindness towards those less fortunate than one’s self, but based on the idea that tzedakah, from the Hebrew root tzedek or justice is a righteous deed, the honorable and just action.

Rabbi Moses Maimonides, the 12th century sage who was admired throughout the ancient world, crafted a guide for giving gifts or tzedakah to those less fortunate than us. Maimonides, also known as the Rambam, enumerated eight different ways of giving tzedakah. The highest level, or best way to help another person, would be by helping that person find a job, or actually entering into some sort of partnership with that person.

According to Maimonides, the next best way of doing what is right and just, is through giving a charitable donation to someone where the person who gives doesn’t know who will receive the gift and the one who receives the money does not know who has given it. No need for wall plaques, thanks or certificates here. To do good is its own reward.

As we move down the rungs of the tzedakah ladder, the next best way of giving is where the person who gives knows who will be receiving his/her donation, but the person who receives the tzedakah doesn’t know who gave it. In this way, the receiver need not feel beholden in any way to the giver.

The next best case would be a person who gives money directly to a person in need before the person has to ask for it. Surely a more honorable and less shame-inducing way to give.

Further down the rungs, we come to those who give directly to a person in need, but only after having been asked.

Below this is a person who gives directly to the poor, but gives less than he or she is able, all the while giving the tzedakah cheerfully.

On the lowest rung, we meet a person who gives tzedakah, but grudgingly and with a scowl.

So there you have it. Maimonides’ Eight Rungs of Giving to the Poor. In truth, giving charity, no matter how it is given, is a mitzvah or good deed. Still, it is worth our while to stop and consider how and why we are contributing to the greater good not only at this special time of year, but throughout the year.

May this season inspire us to a deeper, more profound sense of appreciation for all we have. May our acts of caring and compassion reach out to many and may every day become a day of Thanksgiving.

Giving to others makes one’s heart glad. The giver truly receives a blessing in return for his or her kind deed. Even those who feel they don’t have much to give, or are in need themselves, can offer up something of value to another. Compassion knows no limits or bounds.

 

Janet Tatz, M.Ed., is the Jewish educator at Intermountain Children’s Home and the lay leader of the Helena Jewish community.

 

NOTE: This article was cross-posted with the Faith and Values page of The Helena Independent Record, but is posted here for your reading pleasure! Please visit the Independent Record, and click here to see how we incorporated the concepts of tzedakah in our chapel services at Intermountain.

Nov 23

“The Branch” An object lesson for the 1st week of Advent

Objects needed: A seedling, branch, or picture of stump/seedling/nursery log
Theme/Main Idea: Even when things seem hopeless, God gives us hope. When nothing is left of the tree but the stump, there is still life there… just waiting for the right season to spring up again.sprouts-out-of-the-tree-stump
Presentation:

“How are you this morning, children? Can I be honest with you about how I am feeling? I am a little sad… disappointed.

[what would be best here is for you to share a personal story about a time you felt let down… what I include here is for illustrative purposes]

I was really hoping that I had made a friend the other day at church. We made plans to meet for lunch, but when the day came, she said she had too much going on at work and had to cancel. I had my hopes up, and they just fizzled. So, I am feeling pretty low. Anyone else here ever feel that way?

Well, I guess I better get on with the lesson. You want to see what I have for the object lesson today? [let kids respond] Yes? Okay… here we go, I am so excited!

[pull out a seedling/stick or picture of a stump]

Isn’t it beautiful? [kids will likely give you puzzled looks] What? You don’t agree?

I think it is beautiful because I just read about what this means in the Bible… In Jeremiah, chapter 33, God promised a branch—or a little seedling—that would grow up and save everyone! Isn’t that amazing? I really like trees, and that must mean this will be an amazing tree!

Hmmm… you guys don’t look convinced. Do you suppose this is one of those places in the Bible where it’s like a word picture—and maybe God wasn’t really talking about a branch, a seedling, or a stump? I think that might be right, especially since this passage comes up on our first day of Advent.

Do you know about Advent? Advent means “the arrival of an important person or event.” It’s the start of the church year, and throughout the season of Advent we recognize the coming of Jesus as a baby. We celebrate that particular miracle on what day that is coming up? Do you know? [let kids respond] That’s right! Christmas! So, Advent is the time leading up to Christmas.

Well, with that in mind, let’s take another look at this promise of a branch that was going to come and save everyone.

Do you know what God was actually talking about? Or, maybe I should say… Do you know WHO God was talking about? [kids guess] That’s right… Jesus!

Jesus was the branch Jeremiah wrote about. That’s kinda weird, isn’t it? It gets a little less weird if you understand why God promised that branch in the first place.

Back then, the people of Israel were pretty discouraged. They had messed up big time, and they were suffering the consequences of some pretty bad choices. They had turned their backs on God and decided to do things their own way. It didn’t work out very well for them. So, like a big beautiful tree getting cut down, all of their amazingness of being God’s people was taken away. They had to leave the places they were living and go live somewhere else.

They were sad. They had gone from feeling like a big, important and beautiful tree to a lowly little stump. And, as they felt lowly like that stump, without any hope, that’s when God told them that out of that stump they had become a new tree would sprout! At first it would be so small, it would just be like a little branch coming out of the side of the stump!

Wow… incredible! When they felt their worst and felt like maybe God would just throw up his hands and be done with them, God gave them a promise. God told them that they would have a future leader, a great great great (you keep going on and on for a little while…) grandson of King David, who would help make them the type of people who are ‘right with God,’ close to him, and part of God’s family! That’s a wonderful promise to look forward to.

So, here we are in Advent, just starting out. Let’s remember how God kept his promise to send the branch—the seedling from the stump of Israel—known as Jesus, and that he still keeps all his promises today. In our own small way, we can help extend the hope that God gives us by supporting the work Intermountain does with kids and families. We’re handing out change cans today, and we’re hoping you fill them up between now and Christmas. You’ll hear a little more about Intermountain as we move through the Advent season. But, for now…

Let’s pray:

God, thank you for your presence in each of our lives. Help us remember the promises that have come true and those that will come true in the future. Give us patience to wait for all the good things you promise to those that love you and place their trust in you. Help us hold out for the best, YOUR best God—for us, and for our church and our community. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”

Key Text: Jeremiah 33:14-16, New International Reader’s Version (NIRV)

14 “The days are coming,” announces the LORD. “At that time I will fulfill my good promise to my people. I made it to the people of Israel and Judah.
15 “Here is what I will do in those days and at that time.
I will make a godly Branch grow from David’s royal line.
He will do what is fair and right in the land.
16 In those days Judah will be saved.
Jerusalem will live in safety.
And it will be called
The LORD Who Makes Us Right With Himself.”

Nov 18

Tzedakah & Operation Christmas Child 2015

20151110_165028_resized_1Recently we participated in Operation Christmas Child with the help of staff members who helped donate items for the annual event. The children had the opportunity to put together gift boxes for children in various places around the world. We spoke about how this gift might be the first gift some of these children would receive and how we can learn to be grateful with what we have been given, even if we know our lives are far from perfect.

Jewish Educator, Janet Tatz, gave a lesson in the Jewish tradition of tzedakah–which means “justice” but refers to the act of charitable giving. The children were able to hear a story about how a little girl named Dahlia was able to get a BIG yellow comforter into a little

Janet reads a story about Dahlia and a big yellow comforter

Janet reads a story about Dahlia and a big yellow comforter

tzedakah box! Of course, she was simply saving up her money to give to a charity, but it was a fun way to introduce to the children the concept of saving up so you could do good for another.

We had a wonderful time of celebration putting our 31 boxes together! We saw a video from Samaritan’s Purse that showed some children in Madagascar receiving their gifts and using the new snorkels and masks they received to explore the sea. Our friends at Our Redeemer’s Lutheran Church received the boxes and will help with the cost of shipping.

While some of our younger children struggled with the concept of assembling a gift for someone they didn’t know, and not getting a gift themselves, most of the children were really able to get into the spirit of giving. We prayed for the children that would be receiving our gifts, and each child took time to write a note of encouragement and friendship to the young person they assembled a gift for.

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“I hope you like my present. I like riding bikes,” wrote one of our younger children.

Isn’t it great to be reminded that even in the midst of very difficult circumstances, we can learn to be grateful and give to others something that might be an encouragement to them? Our children are an encouragement to me daily, and I hope that we can carry ourselves with the same attitude of selflessness and love that they are learning to express during their time at Intermountain.

Nov 14

Considering Chrismons – a free devotional for you this season

Yes… I know it is still a little early to be thinking of Christmas… BUT, I want to make sure to get these materials into your hands well in advance so you can be prepared for the Christmas season, traditionally known as Advent.

A Chrismon is a type of symbol. Chrismons, or “Christ Monograms” are all hung on a tree, the Chrismon Tree. The tree itself is also a symbol for the Christmas season, a reminder of the truths we celebrate as we recall Jesus’ birth. Many churches use the Chrismon Tree as a way of reminding their congregations about the truths celebrated this coming holiday season.

We are used to seeing symbols each day and recognizing their power for interpreting a great deal with relative simplicity. For instance, the children at Intermountain are most familiar with road signs and how the “message” they convey is very important! Once you understand the presence and power of symbols, you can use them to deepen your appreciation of the season.

If you would like a free devotional based on the most popular Chrismon ornaments, please click here.

As we explore the Chrismons together this coming Christmas season, my prayer is that you delve deep into the love God has for you in Jesus Christ. May these devotions warm your heart and feed your soul! Know, too, that in working through these symbols you are connected with other supporters of Intermountain and the children of the Residential program in Helena, Montana. We will all be covering “the same ground” as we walk together towards Christmas morning, in the eternal ways of God, our heavenly Father.

Sincerely,

Chaplain Chris Haughee

Nov 08

God is with me – a lesson from chapel services at Intermountain

A collage of the children's watercolor projects from chapel
A collage of the children’s watercolor projects from chapel

November brings with it a season of holidays in which we are encouraged to think about gratitude and thankfulness. But, if you are a child without a home, or one that has been removed from your parents and school because you could not stay safe with your overwhelming emotions, where do you start when thinking about gratitude?

In ministry to hurting kids and families, I find that the cookie-cutter answers just don’t suffice. When working with someone recovering from a difficult childhood, dealing with post-traumatic stress disorder, or searching for love in unhealthy ways it doesn’t work to just pray and prescribe a bible memory verse! The reality of pain and the need for grace within the messiness of broken relationship causes you to take more seriously the raw and real nature of the Christian and Hebrew scriptures. God’s people have never been immune to trouble and difficulty, and the absence of trouble in your life is just as likely to signal your drift away from God as it is any sort of supernatural blessing from on high. In fact, Jesus stated, “Woe to you when everyone you know only has nice things to say about you!” and “In this world, you are going to have trouble! But, take heart, because I have overcome the world!” (see Luke 6:26 & John 16:33)

In a recent chapel service, we had an opportunity to discuss some of these matters of faith in the midst of difficulty and the hard work of treatment. The verse we focused on for that chapel service was Isaiah 43:2, which reads,

When you pass through the waters, I will be with you;
and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you.

The children then got to do a watercolor project that had a special twist to it. On the art paper I had written the words, “God is with me, Isaiah 43:2” in white crayon. The words would only show up as they were painting. And, as we had discussed how the passage references feeling overwhelmed to the point of drowning, the children were invited to paint a water scene if they wanted to.

Their faces lit up as they saw the words appear on the art paper, especially since I had not warned them that the message would appear as they painted. More than a few “light bulbs” went off as the children painted. I took the opportunity to reinforce the point of the lesson one last time, saying, “Children, it is often not until we see that we are in desperate need of God’s saving that we understand that he is with us in the midst of the waters that threaten to sweep over us and drown us. Now, it’s not literal water I am talking about, but that overwhelming feeling that this world is going to be too hard for us and we have a hard time trusting it will get better. There… in our panic… God is with us.”

Oct 29

#RememberingKalkidan

KK-heart KK-group-WIXNOTE: Today, October 29th, is Kalkidan’s birthday. The Qualls have invited everyone who would like to honor her memory to wear orange (a favorite of our bright, vivacious friend Kalkidan!) or pose with something orange and post a picture to social media with the tag #rememberingkalkidan. To the right are pictures taken today of those of us at Intermountain that remember Kalkidan, miss her dearly, and love her family. I have also decided to repost this message I shared a month after her loss, because I think the message still rings true.

Sincerely, Chaplain Chris Haughee

 

Recently, the extended Intermountain family suffered a tremendous loss. One of our recent graduates, Kalkidan, passed away as result of injuries sustained in a car accident. She was on her way to Montana to visit friends that she grew close to during her time in our care. The loss of Kalkidan hit us hard. Personally, I spent many hours one-on-one with her as “walking buddies,” which mostly meant we got together to compete over a game of basketball in the gym or a spirited game of SkipBo.

Kalkidan came into our care with a lot of spiritual questions. She had been blessed by an amazing family of great faith, but like most children she was sorting through her faith and her own commitment to Jesus. If you are familiar with this blog, you might remember the post “I Don’t Like Grace.” Kalkidan was the amazingly reflective and honest young woman I was referring to in that post. (read more: http://www.intermountainministry.org/i-dont-like-grace-revisited/)

KalkidanBy the time Kalkidan left to return home to her family, she had come to accept grace. As I wrote then, The knowledge of God’s grace and love has traveled from her head to her heart. She is much more forgiving of others and herself because she understands that we all need God’s grace. It is nothing short of a miracle that the Lord has changed her heart. I feel so much more confident about her prospect of making healthier choices as she transitions home than I did a year ago.”

Since her passing, I have had the chance to speak with her dad, Russ. I was blessed to hear how much that change in Kalkidan’s heart I was able to identify had affected her faith and the expression of the love she felt for friends, family, and God. It was hard not to cry as Russ related how Kalkidan’s whole demeanor at home had softened and how much more naturally she had come to express her faith. She had started inviting friends to church and youth group and was able to experience a sincerity and authenticity in worship that was an example not only to her peers but adults as well.

I am often challenged to express just why Intermountain needs a chaplain’s program. It’s an “elective”—meaning children and families can choose to participate or not. Children come to Intermountain’s residential program for sound clinical treatment in a developmental-relational program, not to have their child learn more about Jesus. However, when a family like the Qualls and a young lady like Kalkidan chooses to participate, God can do amazing things! God was clearly working in Kalkidan’s life prior to the time I was able to befriend and mentor her. I can’t claim to have done anything more than allow myself to be used by the Holy Spirit to continue the conversation started long before and continued after her time in our care. That, I feel, is more than enough to justify the presence of a chaplain’s program at Intermountain.

Kalkidan2God cares for each and every one of his precious children. Knowing Kalkidan has been a blessing beyond measure to those of us at Intermountain. I wanted to close with a beautiful post from Lisa Qualls’ blog that expressed better than I could why those of us that knew Kalkidan feel so blessed.

Still mourning, but hopeful—

Chaplain Chris Haughee


The following post appeared on Lisa Qualls blog, www.onethankfulmom.com. The direct link is: http://www.onethankfulmom.com/attachment-and-trauma/16581/#.VMaXXU10zIV

Our dear friend, Dan Hamer, shared these words on Facebook following Kalkidan’s memorial service. Dan is a pastor at Overlake Christian Church and an adoptive father. He heads up the work in Kenya that allows Russ to do ministry as a hydrologist. He is also Kathleeen’s husband; together they have opened their home to us many, many times, especially during the years when we were traveling to Seattle every other week for therapy with Kalkidan. Now they’re stuck with us for life.

If you didn’t get the chance to know Kalkidan you missed an amazing young girl with a smile that would light up a room and melt your heart. She also had a tender heart of gold and a larger than life personality. She was adopted by our dear friends eight years ago from an orphanage in Ethiopia having lost both of her parents to AIDS. Just last week at the age of thirteen, Kalkidan was killed in a tragic car accident.

Even though in this life she was surrounded by an incredible family and countless friends who showered her with love and encouragement, she was just beginning to figure out how to accept it. As often is the case with children who have suffered trauma, neglect, and abuse it is not easy for them to understand the unconditional love of a family or a God who loves without strings. They don’t always see themselves the way we see them, let alone how God sees them.

I know that in heaven, Kalkidan now fully understands this and I suspect that her smile is even more magical. I would venture to say that everyone who had the privilege of loving Kalkidan also learned an invaluable lesson about unconditional love. Not surprisingly, the student became the teacher and we are all better at both giving and receiving love for having loved Kalkidan.

While my family’s tears this week could have filled a bucket and over a thousand friends and family attended her memorial service, there are many like Kalkidan whose passing will mostly go unnoticed. I suspect that would have been the case had she remained in the orphanage. The world is full of Kalkidans who need the constant assurance that their life matters and that regardless of anything they do, or don’t do, that they are loved.

I am convinced that everyone needs a Kalkidan in their life to teach them this lesson. I hope you will look for one in your life. They don’t just reside in orphanages in Ethiopia. They are in every homeless shelter, prison and foster care agency. They are also in every school, church, and family. These are children who as a result of their brokenness don’t always behave the way we would prefer and whose beauty and gifts will oftentimes go unnoticed unless someone is there to walk alongside them. Don’t sit back and criticize and judge them, get off your high horse and show them the unconditional love that God has shown you.

Find a Kalkidan and you will never be the same. — Lisa Qualls.

 

Oct 26

Of Masks and Halloween

(c) halloweenexpress.com

(c) halloweenexpress.com

People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart”

–1 Samuel 16:7

One night every year in America, people encourage each other to put on masks and costumes and go around looking for candy by knocking on doors! Do you know what this night is called? Right… Halloween!

These costumes and masks are a lot of fun. Maybe a little mischief gets thrown in… something gets “egged” or a house is adorned with toilet paper. But, for the most part, these “tricks” are accepted as part of the tradition associated with October 31st every year.

Now, take those same behaviors and those same masks and costumes and try wearing them around town a month later, you will receive a VERY different reaction. It is clear that there is a time and a place for masks and mischief. If you don’t believe me, try making your next banking transaction in your Halloween mask!

Besides Halloween, there are many reasons people wear masks:

  • So they can “get away with” doing something they wouldn’t normally do
  • To hide who they really are
  • To be a part of the crowd… if everyone else is wearing a mask
  • For protection… from the cold, from “germs,” and other things

Okay… now that your imagination is engaged, it is time to switch gears a bit. Think about your heart rather than your face! How do we put “masks” on our hearts? I am convinced that we wear masks on our hearts for the same reasons we wear masks on our faces!

What can start out as something we wear for protection, or to blend in with others, or to hide who we really are… well, those masks can become so comfortable that we never want to take them off. Part of the work we do in chapel every week is to address the truths of God and God’s Word and how they can give our children the courage to step out from behind the masks and into who God says they are: wonderful, amazing, and capable children of God—with the right to be loved and to love in appropriate and affirming ways.

But, the work is not easy… through the work in the cottages, in school, in therapy sessions, and in chapel, the hurts and fears that made the masks necessary must be dealt with. The reason that masks are so attractive–not only to the children here, but to all of us– is that they WORK… they really do! Well, at least with people.

This is because most people only look at the stuff that is on the outside. We can “fool” them and make them think we are something we are not. We can put on a mask that makes us seem brave, angry, confident, bristly, happy, sad… whatever is needed at the moment. But, behind that mask, we may be really hurting, scared, or otherwise vulnerable.

Fortunately, what works with people doesn’t work with God. God sees past the mask and sees our hearts. He knows our fear, our hurt, our sadness, our shame…

AND GOD LOVES US. HE LOVES US. NO MATTER WHAT. ALWAYS. FOREVER.

GOD…. LOVES…. YOU!

Not the mask, and not the “you” you wish or want to be… God loves you just the way your are, on the inside, and wants to help you take the mask off so others can see what he sees and loves and made you to be.

May you have a fun and safe Halloween, but more importantly, may you have the courage to examine your own heart and see the masks you are wearing. Then, ask God for the courage to take those masks off so people can truly see the person God has created you to be.

Prayer: God, I recognize the masks I wear and how they keep me from being honest with myself, with others… with you. Forgive me for the times when I have settled for relationships that stay on the surface, neither challenging myself to take down my masks, or giving others permission to do the same. Help me to trust and may I receive the courage I need to take my defenses down and love more honestly and openly, just as you love me. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.

 

 

NOTE: This lesson was used in chapel services this week at Intermountain. The kids had AMAZING insight into how the masks they have used to protect themselves have now become the very things they are having to fight through to get to the real emotional and relational work they need to do in order to have healthy connection with their families. Thank you for supporting the work we are doing with children and their families! –Chris.

Oct 22

Brother Van visits campus as part of our “time traveling” Fall series!

Brother Van (Rev. Brad Ulgenes) pauses for a picture after coming forward in time!

Brother Van (Rev. Brad Ulgenes) pauses for a picture after coming forward in time!

Throughout the Fall we have taken an exciting trip through time in chapel. Chaplain Chris, with the help of his friend “Dr. Brown,” created a time machine that we used to bring back a number of Bible heroes as well as a very special guest–Brother Van himself!

Brother Van has always loved singing for and with the children!

Brother Van has always loved singing for and with the children!

Pastor Brad Ulgenes of St. John’s Lutheran Church in Helena came to chapel recently to reprise a role that he perfected during appearances made during Bannack Days.

Needless to say, Brother Van was quite impressed with the work Intermountain continues to do, and we detected no small measure of pride in the fact that the work he and Louise Stork began in 1909 was still going strong, helping the children find healing and hope through healthier relationships.

Brother Van sang songs with the children, just as he did in Intermountain’s early years, and told a number of stories from his time as a circuit rider and Methodist missionary throughout Montana. The children were able to ask him questions and learn more about what led Brother Van into the ministry and why he was so passionate about caring for children. After another rousing song–this time a spirited chorus of “Jesus Loves Me, This I Know”–Brother Van had to be sent back in time. Much like was the case in Intermountain’s early years, the children begged Brother Van to stay.

“Sorry children,” Brother Van said, “I must go back to continue the work of planting churches, working with the Deaconesses, and making sure that the work of the church continues to grow in Montana. It looks like you are in good hands here with Chaplain Chris and the many wonderful staff you have. Goodbye and God bless you!” And, with that parting word, Brother Van left the room to find the “time portal” he had come forward in!

Dr. Brown's amazing time machine

Dr. Brown’s amazing time machine

Other guests throughout the Fall included Queen Esther, elegantly played by Sami Butler, and Ruth, played by Cassie Estelle, one of our school-based therapists. The time machine will be stored away for a little while as we enter the Holiday season, but you never know when Dr. Brown and his amazing invention might show up again!

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