May 18

New Horizon Band visits Intermountain for Spring Concert

Nancy Trudell, Intermountain Board member, recently coordinated with Chaplain Chris to once again bring the New Horizons Community Band to Tuesday chapel.  The band has visited campus a number of times before, each time bringing energy and enthusiasm to their music and their interaction with kids and staff.

New Horizon BandThe band is made up of 52 community members, from a variety of backgrounds, ages and experience who enjoy playing together.  This visit to campus was especially fun, because the program consisted of music from favorite Disney movies including Frozen, which is VERY popular with our children in residence. They also played a few marches by John Williams, composer of some very popular music from films such as “Star Wars” and “Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom.”

New Horizon Band 2Chaplain Chris billed the Spring Concert as a special visit from New Horizons, complete with “instrument petting zoo!” It was fun to hear from the children what they expected the “petting zoo” to be. Though no animals were involved, which disappointed one young man, all of the children’s eyes lit up when they learned that they would get a chance to play trumpets, percussion, trombones, and other instruments. Amidst the cacophony of noise in the gymnasium, it was clear that more than a few of our children have a musical gift!

The highlight of the afternoon was a “drum off” between one of our children and a member of his cottage staff. It brought joy to the hearts of all involved to see the children cheering for their peer as he played the drums, besting (at least in the children’s minds!) the staff member who wasn’t too shabby herself in keeping the beat.

Apr 27

First Ladies Spring Tea at Our Redeemer’s Lutheran a resounding success!

ORLC1An amazing, beautiful, and successful event was held at Our Redeemer’s Lutheran Church in Helena, Montana, on April 18th. The first Spring Tea for ladies was spearheaded by Sharon Amor and Delores Rosin and sprang out of the creative energies of both ladies. The desire was to have a fun and festive event that could benefit Intermountain’s children in residence. Thrivent Financial graciously stepped forward with the financial support needed to offset the costs incurred. So, with the excitement and enthusiasm of nearly two dozen table designers, and with the blessing of Pastor Kendra Wilde, the project was under way.

I was blessed enough to be called on to wait one of the tables and offer a few words of sincere thanks on behalf of the children of Intermountain and the staff that minister to them. It was an honor to serve alongside the many volunteers that helped make the day possible, not the least of which were the impeccably dressed men of the church who had been drafted into service as wait staff for the event.

ORLC2I think you will be able to see from the pictures here that the ladies set the bar VERY high for their first effort of this kind—the tables were beautiful, the food was amazing, and the entertainment from the Last Chance Barbershop Chorus was inspiring and beautiful.

Guests to the Tea all brought gifts for the children from the Spring and Summer “Wish List” as well as very generous cash donations. All told, the support raised for Intermountain was over $2,300! We at Intermountain continue to be blown away at the amazing creativity and generosity of our supporting churches. Our Redeemer’s Lutheran is a caring congregation of people who understand the heart of the gospel—loving God through loving service to others!

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Apr 10

Transformation and Freedom: Easter and Passover at Intermountain, 2015

ThriventWe here at Intermountain hope you had a glorious Passover and Easter season. We just finished up celebrating both holidays with great fanfare and excitement. Our Jewish Educator, Janet Tatz, held a “mini-Seder” on April 10th for all our children and a fair number of staff and adult guests. Our Easter Celebration was held at 10 am Easter morning with an Easter Egg Hunt to follow.

Transformation1This year, like many before, our Easter was made special because of the support of local churches and faith-based supporters. Easter baskets for all our children on campus were prepared by Grace Community Fellowship (http://www.gcfhelena.org ). Campus staff even received gifts this year—a lovely card and chocolate cross from First Assembly of God-Helena (www.helenafirst.com). St. Paul’s United Methodist Church (www.stpaulshelena.org ) stuffed hundreds of Easter eggs for our on-campus egg hunt. Many others stopped by Easter week with little gifts of well wishes, or held events in their churches as fundraisers for the ministry here.

Transformation2In addition to all these wonderful supporters, a new partnership between Thrivent Financial for Lutherans and Intermountain’s chaplaincy made possible a few special additions to our Easter preparations. Many of the children received the New Testament on Mp3 as a gift from Thrivent. Also, the curriculum—“Bug Zone”—and the costuming for our Easter skit: “Water bugs and Dragonflies” were purchased with the resources made available by Thrivent.

Much of what we spoke about in our lessons leading up to Easter focused on how Easter and its message is a reality here and now… It is not just the celebration of a historic event. Jesus taught his followers that God could help anyone transform their lives—just like the transformation we see from a caterpillar to a butterfly. In the place of an Easter sermon, the children read a Reader’s Theater adaptation I did of Doris Stickney’s short story “Water Bugs and Dragonflies,” which I received as a gift from Intermountain Board Member Nancy Staigmiller. The kids did a wonderful job of portraying the wonder and mystery of Easter through the telling of a story of a water bug who leaves the muddy existence of the local pond and becomes a glorious dragonfly. (For this excellent ministry resource, visit: http://www.amazon.com/Water-Bugs-Dragonflies-Explaining-Children/dp/0829818308)

The kids did a wonderful job celebrating Easter with a spirit of enthusiasm and joy, embracing the theme of transformation and sharing the message with staff and family members in attendance. Thank you, our many faith-based supporters, for praying for us and for the children. We appreciate your continued faithfulness to partner with us in the mission of bringing health and healing to children and their families. That is a transformation worth investing in!

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Mar 31

Thanks to Plymouth UCC for a great fundraising book sale!

Plymouth1With retirement on the horizon, Pastors Dick Weaver and Cathy Barker of Plymouth UCC in Helena needed to cull books from their personal library.  Other members at Plymouth UCC nodded sympathetically and the idea was forged to have a used book sale!  The proceeds were designated for Plymouth and Intermountain.  The date was set well in advance so people had plenty of time to gather books and music to donate, and a spot was designated for drop-offs over several weeks’ time.

Publicity went out by email, Facebook, posters, an article & ad in the paper, and word of mouth.  The day before the sale, seven people had a delightful time sorting books onto tables and displaying the music. The price list came from Central Christian Church in Billings which is famous for their enormous book sales.

Plymouth2Traffic was steady on the Saturday of the sale, when a soup and bread lunch was served for $5 from 11 to 1:00.  The time between services Sunday morning saw another lunch and lively sales.  So many books were left that the congregation deemed it worthwhile to run the sale again the next Saturday. The final Sunday everything was “make an offer”.

Remaining books were distributed among helping agencies and the library.  The total take was close to $1000, with expenditures of less than $100 (for publicity).  The dozen volunteers who made it happen all had a great time, and went home with piles of reading material!

At Intermountain, we appreciate the efforts of our many supporting churches and for the creativity they show in just how they go about raising their support. A special thanks goes out to the wonderful congregation of Plymouth UCC (http://www.plymouthmontana.org/) for all their hard work to make for a very successful book sale.

Mar 22

Spring is here… or is it?

Did you know that the official start of spring on the calendar was March 20th? We are officially past winter and into spring. Isn’t it great?

I imagine you are shaking your head back and forth in disagreement. Perhaps it doesn’t feel like spring just yet? A Montana spring teases and taunts us, daring us to put our seeds in the garden on the off chance that THIS year we won’t get our last hard frost in May. It is understandable, then if our enthusiasm for these first few days of spring are tempered, at best.

However, I submit that there is a significance in it being spring, even if it doesn’t feel like it. There are things going on all around us behind the scenes that prepare the way for a glorious spring, even if they are practically imperceptible. These first weeks of spring in Montana are like the chrysalis of spring—a time of transition from winter weather to the sun, flowers, and bright days ahead.

A chrysalis shelters the earth-bound caterpillar as it changes into a beautiful butterfly. Gone are the restraints of the former existence, and the colorful butterfly soars into the air. Whatever drudgery came with being a lowly caterpillar is forgotten in the glory of a new life borne about on the warm breeze and fantastic fluttering of wings—WINGS of all things!

That chrysalis time, though, can feel so long that the cocoon of transformation seems more like a tomb of death. Transitions in life often feel this way. That time between caterpillar and butterfly looks like early spring in Montana… dead and relatively lifeless.

ButterflyHave you ever felt the pain of a seemingly imperceptible transition in your life? Caught between what was left behind and what will happen next, you find yourself wondering, “What’s going on? Where has God gone?” Fear of the unknown future looms large and anxiety presses in. This is especially true for the parent of a child that struggles to overcome a difficult past in hope of a better future.

As the parent of a child recovering from the effects of early childhood trauma, I know the pain that those who care for these hurting children experience. You cannot shorten either the pain of their winter experience nor rush their chrysalis transition. Instead, you endeavor to remain hopeful, patient, and watching for those first signs of a coming spring when the transformation will be complete. It’s a heavy burden and an arduous task—for the child, for the parent, and for the amazing staff at Intermountain who help enable the healing that eventually comes.

Jesus spent some time in his own chrysalis. He knew his death, burial, and resurrection were going to be hard for his followers to understand. He knew that when he went into that transition from his earthly body to his resurrected body, most would look to the tomb and think death had won. Like the early days of spring in Montana, finding signs of hope would take a careful eye and a trust in the power of God.

In the Gospel of John, the 12th Chapter, the apostle captures a conversation between Jesus and his followers. It was at a time when Jesus was planting seeds of understanding for what was yet to come. These seeds would only flower into complete understanding after Easter morning. Jesus told them, “The hour has come for the Son of Man to be glorified. Very truly I tell you, unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds.” (John 12: 23-24)

CaveBy dying Jesus was going to defeat death! He tried to explain it ahead of time… He called it his glory. Jesus was going to be glorified just like the glory and purpose of a seed is to die, be buried in the soil, and then reemerge in the spring as a beautiful and fruitful plant!

Like caterpillar to butterfly, the transition from winter to spring is a natural example of this same spiritual truth. There is new life that comes to us because Jesus died, was buried and rose on the third day. As we await with anticipation the glory of Easter morning, let us also marvel at the slow and hidden signs of spring that are moving forth all around us, ready to burst into the fullness of spring in days ahead.

© Chaplain Chris Haughee, 2015

Mar 17

Be Happy! It’s Adar! Learning about Purim

JanetPurim, a 3000 plus year old Jewish holiday, takes place during the Jewish month of Adar (theme for the month: Be Happy!  It’s Adar!).  It commemorates Jewish survival over a foe in the ancient Persian Empire, who desired to destroy all of Jewish culture, religion and peoplehood.  Fortunately, the day was saved by the brave, bright and beautiful Queen Esther.  In celebration, we eat hamentashen, a tasty triangle-shaped, fruit-filled pastry, dress in costumes, tell the story (the Megillah) of Queen Esther and her heroic deeds, recognize that things are not always as they seem, and “make merry”.

On Purim, it is a tradition to emphasis Jewish unity and friendship.  It is customary to send gifts of fruit, hamentashen and other ready-to-eat foods to friends near and far.  While it is a year-round responsibility for Jews to be concerned for the needy, the ill and the infirm, it is a special mitzvah (commandment and good deed) to give directly to the poor or shut-in on Purim.  This gift is called Shaloch manot and this year, the Jewish students from Intermountain and I created and delivered a shaloch manot basket for my mother, who is currently residing at a local nursing home.  She was surprised and delighted by the children’s visit.  The children, in turn, were pleased to have been able to perform a mitzvah in honor of the holiday of Purim.

Janet Tatz, Jewish Educator

Mar 06

Ministering to the shame-based child

Shame is a sense of being totally unlovable… worthless. While guilt is a feeling we have when we feel bad about what we have done, shame is when we feel bad about who we are. Shame can be the result of deep hurt, abandonment, abuse, neglect or ridicule. When these traumatizing factors occur early in life, the effect is devastating to the sense of self-worth and belonging. The shame-based child feels like they are always on the outside, never belonging. They don’t fit within their family, their peer group, or their class. Many shame-based children and individuals suffer from a lack of trust. Trust is built upon the foundation of relationship, and the shame-based child feels unworthy of relationship that reciprocates love and trust. As a result, the shame-based child feels powerless and hopeless, and often those caring for them feel that same sense of hopelessness.

ShameI know from my own personal and ministry experience, working with the shame-based child can be exhausting work. Those stuck in a cycle of self-loathing often do things that reinforce their own sense of unworthiness. They feel unlovable, so they are going to make it as close to impossible to love them as they can. The shame-based child lies, steals, cheats, and bullies. They sabotage the good things you try and give them—destroying presents, disrupting birthday parties, deflecting praise. Shame is toxic. It poisons the soul and the mind. The shame-based child thinks in terms of all or nothing, either/or, generalizing and labeling. The perception of the world becomes limited and most interactions revolve around assigning blame. Shame robs the future of any joy. Shame is the enemy of Read the rest of this entry »

Feb 25

Learning gratitude through giving

Eludi1“Bishop Eludi, I would like to say thank you for your work in Africa especially with the orphans and the poor people, also understanding lives of people in need who live a life of suffering. There is a lot of suffering In Africa. I like the work you do Bishop Eludi, helping bring hope to those struggling with hunger, orphaned children, war, sickness, and so much more people don’t understand. People ask me how I know about this. I tell them I might have not seen eye to eye with a person who is suffering in Africa right now, but I know because I was once one of them.

But I know there are people like Bishop Eludi helping the people of Africa to understand that one day peace will come. I am also thankful that we can do some small thing, like putting together the Hygiene kits, to help train Bible students to be pastors and those that will help bring peace and understanding to Africa.” – written by Faith, one of our children in residence.

Eludi2Recently, our children assembled hygiene kits as a service project. These hygiene kits are given to students that come from far away to attend the International Evangelism Centre in Salika, Tanzania. At the Centre, these students prepare to be church planters and pastors to a number of countries in East Africa. The relatively few supplies—all fitting into a 1 gallon Ziplock bag—are a tremendous blessing to these eager, but often impoverished, students. The assembly of the kits allowed us a wonderful opportunity to discuss in chapel just how richly we are blessed, and that there is always something to be thankful for in the midst of our struggles in life.

In a special chapel attended by Bishop Eliudi, the founder and president of IEC-Salika, the children were able to pray for each kit they assembled and the student that would be receiving the gift. Then, after a fun activity and some questions for Bishop Eliudi, the children presented the kits, one at a time. They shook hands with Bishop Eliudi and were thanked and blessed for their generosity. The smiles on their faces told the story. For many of our children, uprooted from their homes and working through some very difficult issues and matters of relationship, it was a healthy reminder that they, too, have something to give. They could see in a very tangible way that they had been blessed to be a blessing.

“It is more blessed to give than to receive…” (Acts 20:35)

In the Chaplain’s Program at Intermountain, we feel it is important for the children to learn compassion, empathy, and the positive sense of self that comes from giving oneself in service to another. From the spirit and the energy that flowed from our chapel service with Bishop Eliudi, it is hard to argue against the therapeutic power of service and acts of kindness and encouragement. One of the highlights this year was the sharing that Faith did, sharing a bit of her adoption story that she had crafted with help from her mother and therapist.

A big thank you goes out to the many Intermountain staff that donated items for the kits we made. I am also thankful for Sami Butler for her help in arranging the visit on campus. A grand total of 32 kits were assembled, one for each child in residence, which is a fantastic feat and it was a great encouragement to Bishop Eluidi!

Feb 18

2015 Valentine’s Day Tea with Lisa Bowen

Loy ChvilicekEarlier this month we had the pleasure of putting on another wonderful Girls’ Valentine’s Day Tea. We hosted the Tea in our Community Service Center building and were treated to a brief talk on Victorian era tea etiquette by Loy Chvilicek and a wonderful devotional talk from Lisa Bowen of Life Covenant Church. Cookies and other goodies were provided by the ladies of St. Peter’s Episcopal Church and First Presbyterian Church, both of Helena. Many staff members helped with preparation, set-up, service, and clean-up, but the greatest assistance came from our resident wonder-woman, Anne Wilmoth! I was especially grateful, too, for the help that our Jewish Educator, Janet Tatz, provided in chasing down great deals on chocolate dipped strawberries from Van’s and special cookies from The Vanilla Bean. I was blessed to see our young ladies in residence truly feel special and honored by the fuss made over them. It warmed my heart to see how deeply the love of God has touched the children in our care and the difference it is making in their lives.

It was an honor to have my friend and colleague, Lisa Bowen, come and share her story with us. Lisa’s devotional talk focused on her personal story and how deeply it was shaped by the faithfulness of her grandmother. Lisa had even brought us a very special gift—many of the tea cups and saucers on the table were her grandmother’s and she has given them to Intermountain to use for future Teas! I think the part that touched most of us was to hear about how God used something very simple—the gift of conversation over a cup of tea—to allow Lisa’s grandmother to be used powerfully to affect many people’s lives.

Lisa BowenLisa told us about how her grandparents once owned a pub in England. When an evangelist showed up in the pub and wanted to chat with them about Jesus, he was kindly asked to leave. The persistence of the evangelist paid off, however, after a week and Lisa’s grandfather and the man had a talk that kept churning about in his head and heart until he made a decision to give his heart and life to God. Once that happened, Lisa’s grandmother followed suit. Then, realizing their new faith was at odds with their lifestyle and business, they sold all they had and spent the next thirty years traveling all over the world sharing with people about how Jesus can change a person’s life!

Apparently, during these travels, Lisa’s grandfather did most of the presenting. Her grandmother did not prefer to be in the spotlight. However, she did like to have a cup of tea. So, God used her to sit down with countless individuals over the years, touching their lives with her quiet way and asking questions and hearing people’s stories. Lisa’s grandmother was also what one might call a “prayer warrior.” She knew the power of prayer and prayed fervently and consistently for many people, including Lisa and her husband. Lisa credits her grandmother’s faith and prayers with shaping her into the wonderful woman of God she is now. Those gathered for the Tea were deeply touched by Lisa’s words and the gentle way with which she shared her story.

Chaplain Chris had special gifts for everyone in attendance—a little “love bug”—as a reminder of the need to spread love to others in small ways every day. And, of course, our girls all received a personalized Valentine and another gift that connected with the theme of bugs and butterflies. Each person at the Tea felt blessed to have had that time and opportunity to express the love of God toward one another and left with their hearts a little lighter and a little fuller.

Feb 10

Of Shields, Smarties and the Holy Spirit

Life in ministry to 32 SED (severely emotionally disturbed) children is always an exercise in balancing preparation, improvisation, and constant openness to the Holy Spirit. It’s part of what makes the chaplaincy at Intermountain’s residential home such an exciting and challenging place to serve. I thought I might take a few moments to share how each of these factors: preparation, improvisation, and openness to the Spirit come into play on a week-by-week basis here at Intermountain.

Of SheildsPREPARATION: So, I’ve always been a long-term planner, so this one is right in my wheelhouse as far as personality styles go. There are certain things on the chapel calendar that I know are “givens” because they represent part of the rhythm of the seasons and have become part of the traditions that provide a sense of consistency for our children and staff. These include Valentine’s Tea, St. Patrick’s Day Brunch, summer schedule for chapel, Easter/Passover celebrations, Christmas/Chanukah celebrations, and much more. Thinking ahead helps alleviate the stress that comes from trying to do plan these events and chapel activities well while also managing all the other aspects of the job. 19 years into vocational ministry to children and youth, I am at that phase where I have forgotten some of the things that I really loved and worked well in the past, only to rediscover them when I dust an “old” idea off and reintroduce it.

Recently, I have brought back something I used to do with an after-school group in Woodland, WA for scripture and prayer memorization. It is involves the kids coming up with hand and body motions for whatever we are memorizing. This last month in chapel we’ve been working on memorizing a shortened version of St. Patrick’s “Shield Prayer.” It starts out, “Christ as a light illumine and guide me, Christ as a shield overshadow me…” After getting past the children thinking we were saying “aluminum guide me,” it has been a joy to see the pride our kids have learning this ancient prayer. And, for children with anxiety disorders and deep-seated fear and shame, the prayer is a great way to remind them that Christ is ALWAYS there with them to shield and protect them.

IMPROVISATION: Oh my, where I would be without this skill in ministry! Working at Intermountain requires the ability to remain flexible and improvise. You may plan chapel for 18 kids and 6 arrive, and only 3 of them on time. A lesson geared for a larger group and planned to take 50 minutes gets shortened down to a much smaller group staggered into two phases, 20 minutes with the three that arrive on time and 20 more minutes with the other 3 that come in late. Imagine the message it might send to a shame-based child struggling with issues of self worth if you even HINT at disappointment in “your plans” not working because not enough people came to chapel! I need to constantly check my own attitude and body language even while downshifting into plan B or C, all the while expressing my excitement over the presence of those who actually made it to chapel. Likewise, knowing the struggle it can be for our direct care staff to manage the kids and care for them, they often come to chapel pretty wiped out. They need to be ministered to as well. Finding a way to interject a little encouragement and fun into our plans for chapel—even when improvising—is often far more important than the bible lesson for the day! Read the rest of this entry »

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